by Katie Reeder

My December love letter.
Various practices of habit, and broad perspectives on home.
Sharing life with people can feel scary. Will they accept us? Challenge us? Love us? Grow with us? It's hard to be vulnerable...it's hard to trust. But, you'll never know until you try.Thankfully, these boys were, and continue to be, the best examples of facing fears. Crashing into the waves that are stronger than they are, laughing alongside one another, cheering each other on, knowing that facing this fear together they were going to be alright.
His room is one of my favorites spaces in our home. It’s where we play, where we laugh, where we spend time together...Time feels like it is flying by in a blink of an eye these days, so I’ll be doing my best to hold onto these small moments we have together with all my heart.
...I have to remind myself that this is their art, their expression, their experience of the process.There were many things I wanted to say or do during this exercise- "Don’t make the grumpy gingerbread man!", "Too much frosting!", "You’re getting it everywhere!" But I have to remind myself that this is their art, their expression, their experience of the process. Hearing them be so proud of their creations, knowing that their contributions are valued, is more beautiful than any perfectly piped cookies. Free to frost, and free to be.
There have been 123 Christmases celebrated here, and I wonder what Christmas looked like 100 years ago here, and what traditions the family that built this house celebrated.There have been 123 Christmases celebrated here, and I wonder what Christmas looked like 100 years ago here, and what traditions the family that built this house celebrated. It's an amazing gift to be here now, keeping the Christmas traditions alive and well in this old home
But dinner is not our family jam. There are usually arms flying and drinks spilling and someone accidentally getting poked with a fork. I usually try to keep it short and sweet and excuse everyone from the table as fast as I can.My first thought was—candlelight! So I lit candles, dimmed the lights, put on French cafe radio, and whipped some cream for pumpkin pie after our otherwise standard dinner (poached salmon, quinoa, baked sweet potatoes). Guys, dinner tonight was a DREAM, especially the part where the kids took their plates to the sink and spent the next two hours outside playing in the snow while I chilled inside by candlelight.
We bought our first house here, adopted three cats and a puppy, raised five foster kittens and one foster dog. Had two babies and one miscarriage. All of our babies' "firsts" have been here. I never thought I’d be in Oklahoma more than a year, and now I honestly can’t imagine myself anywhere else...Our roots are here and they are deep, despite the fact that none of our family lives anywhere close to us. We’ve started to talk about where we see ourselves, especially when the education of our boys comes into the conversation. It’s weird for us, we have no requirement to be here whatsoever, and yet we are consciously choosing to be here.
With the dark evenings and the cold temperatures outside, curling up in the warm house and reading book after book sounds so lovely.I would spend all of my time reading this Winter if I could. I'm really craving it since the time change. With the dark evenings and the cold temperatures outside, curling up in the warm house and reading book after book sounds so lovely. The truth is, I'm not sure I even finished more than one book this whole year. I'm going to start being intentional about taking a little time for myself to read.
Sometimes it feels like it was only yesterday that I was checking the back seat of the car every five seconds to make sure my little 5lb. peanut’s neck was supported in her infant carrier.Sometimes it feels like it was only yesterday that I was checking the back seat of the car every five seconds to make sure my little 5lb. peanut’s neck was supported in her infant carrier. Other times, it feels like I’ve been throwing french fries at her in her car seat non-stop for like seven years to keep her from banshee screaming when she’s hungry. Oh, how times have changed.
At the beginning of the year, I made a goal to take more hikes, get lost in nature, and teach my children to love the wild—to be wild. I am proud of them. I am proud of myself.If I could give you one piece of advice today, it would be skip the playground and get lost! Go explore...touch, find, listen, breathe. There is so much beauty yearning to be found and to soak in. These sweet times have been growth for myself and the girls. They have taught us peace and patience, how to slow down, and how to never lose our wonder.
May you have a little piece of adult-only time in your week ahead, and may you not feel an ounce of guilt in relishing it.Child-free time. Goodness me, I love the [tiny, dinosaur-adorned] socks off my boys, but let’s not be under any illusions that any of us can have a healthy mind without a little bit of it. May you have a little piece of adult-only time in your week ahead, and may you not feel an ounce of guilt in relishing it.
Once you know how to make this one dough, there are so many recipe opportunities!Did you know that the dough used to make this lovely, savory, braided bread is the same brioche I use to make my lime-cream-cheese breakfast bread? It is! Once you know how to make this one dough, there are so many recipe opportunities! Want to know a secret? The cream cheese filling for the breakfast bread will be the same filling used in the cream cheese and blueberry galette I’ll be posting later this week. Master a technique or two and you can truly go off on your own!
Gosh, life is too precious to waste my days trying to keep up. Trying to do all the things. Who cares if my home isn’t perfectly styled or if my kids are wearing clothes with stains? Really, those little things don’t matter.Gosh, life is too precious to waste my days trying to keep up. Trying to do all the things. Who cares if my home isn’t perfectly styled or if my kids are wearing clothes with stains? Really, those little things don’t matter. Know what I mean?
I’ve cried, I’ve laughed, I’ve screamed, I’ve felt guilty, I’ve needed space, I’ve needed all his love. It’s definitely a roller coaster of emotions.This season of motherhood has been a hard one since Atticus is in his "terrible twos". I’ve cried, I’ve laughed, I’ve screamed, I’ve felt guilty, I’ve needed space, I’ve needed all his love. It’s definitely a roller coaster of emotions. In the midst of all the crazy, I love our relationship, I love his personality, I love our jokes, I love who he is.
My initial thought was to tell him not to touch Mommy's cup of coffee again because he could get burned, but my 3-year-old son wanted me to take a break and enjoy my cup of coffee. And that's just what I did.My initial thought was to tell him not to touch Mommy's cup of coffee again because he could get burned, but my 3-year-old son wanted me to take a break and enjoy my cup of coffee. And that's just what I did.
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