by Kylee Noelle

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Various practices of habit, and broad perspectives on home.
But it was so nice to just hang out and not work or have any other obligations, even for one day.Yesterday we spent the entire day as a family, taking a walk in the cutest neighborhood, drinking coffee, and pretending we lived in Stars Hollow (okay, maybe that was just me). But it was so nice to just hang out and not work or have any other obligations, even for one day. Yesterday also ended with a homemade apple pie and takeout because I didn't want to have dishes for Monday.
We woke up pretty early this morning and all four of us snuggled up on the sofa under warm blankets and watched the Great British Baking Show until we got too hungry...I may end up baking later in the day, because cold winds outside make me want to hibernate and consume comfort foods. Or, we might just bundle up and go on an adventure. Who knows what the day will bring, but one thing I am sure of is I will be spending it with my most favorite little people.
Friends would swoop in and reassure us that this was just a season, a blip in the big picture of it all. They promised we’d likely not even remember walking around the house in circles singing made-up songs while eating freezer burritos at odd hours of the day (or night). And it’s true.Oliver is turning two next month, and those all-encompassing baby days feel like a different time, a different Us. In many ways, dare I say it, Toddlerhood actually feels a bit harder. Lately Oliver has become extremely opinionated about what he will and will not wear — and he enforces these opinions with fervor. Don’t get near the kid with a button-down shirt...this week at least. He’s obsessed with his rain boots and if it were up to him, he’d keep them on at all times, especially during meals. He insists on ketchup with everything (I created a damn monster), has learned the word “trash” and insists on throwing found items away on his own that really, truly are not trash. I came to pick him up from daycare the other day and he was randomly wearing a bike helmet — his teacher mentioned he’d had it on most of the day and really, really didn’t want to take it off. The kid has FEELINGS. I love that about him, and wouldn’t want it any other way. But, man it’s also exhausting.
I kept stirring it and tasting it and yelling up to Sam to get down here and Try. This. Soup. No exaggeration, this is the best soup I’ve ever made.Whereas some pureed soups can still be a bit on the chunky or thick side, this soup is luxuriously smooth, even velvetty. The ingredient list and method is relatively straightforward and simple (leave out the jalapeño if you’d like — I’ve made it with and without, and it’s delicious both ways), and it freezes beautifully. Just the sort of thing I’ve needed around all week to fuel our post-dinner dance parties, laps around the downstairs part of the house with all manner of kitchen tools, and Oliver’s new favorite game, “Touch” (running from one end of the living room to the other, smacking the wall on each side and screaming “Touch”). Oh, and basement bike riding (him) while avoiding dangerous power tools (me, frantically). Wild, carrot soup-fueled times over here, I tell you. I’m doing my best to find humor and magic amidst the tiredness; there’s a lot of both. And in general trying not to look ahead in anticipation of the next season or blip to come, but sitting right down inside of this one. It feels like a good spot to be in and, in truth, one I’d looked forward to for so long.
I put Jett down, he screams, pull E out of the tub and on the toilet, she cries. I pick Jett BACK up to finish feeding...I finally convince her that neither of these are going to happen and that she needs to go on the toilet (something she’s done before). I put Jett down, he screams, pull E out of the tub and on the toilet, she cries. I pick Jett BACK up to finish feeding, just in time for E to decide she doesn’t have to poop after all and wants back in the tub.
It's one of those brisk, cloudy days...we're moving slow, taking baths, resting, and I haven't accomplished much, but it reminds me to be thankful for all things...It's one of those brisk, cloudy days...we're moving slow, taking baths, resting, and I haven't accomplished much, but it reminds me to be thankful for all things (like not having to sit in an office right now). Cheers to a lazy Friday at home.
If you’re down and out today, I encourage you to reassess your situation. Make changes where they need be. Sit. Think. Process. Be still. And know that’s it’s all going to be okay.You have the responsibility to protect yourself from the people and circumstances that make life hard. You can’t always stop the fall from happening, but you can brace for it. If you’re down and out today, I encourage you to reassess your situation. Make changes where they need be. Sit. Think. Process. Be still. And know that’s it’s all going to be okay.
He couldn't wipe the smile from his face as he told me the story after they got back home. And I assured him it will never get old watching her adore him as much as she does.In the middle of the practice, my husband watched as she whispered something to her teacher, walked quietly down the steps and down the rows of pews to where he was sitting and watching. She smiled big, wrapped her arms around him and finished it off with a kiss and assured him her teacher said it was OK for her to leave her seat to do it.
When I look at these curtains, I smile because they were a week overdue.Well, anyone walking by our place that Saturday evening may have seen the flicker of candlelight, the rim of a birth pool and possibly even me, mostly naked. I love how they add just enough to the space, and how their existence ties into such a monumental moment in our lives.
Excuse me while I curl under a blanket and eat my weight in roasted carrot soup.While I’d love to be the mom who oven roasts her own tomatoes, ain’t nobody got time for that in this house. So the canned ones do just fine and taste great too. It also cuts down my soup-making time to approximately 30 min, of which the oven does the majority all on its own. The bulk of the work on this is in the prep (5-10 minutes-ish) and the blending (1 minute).
As soon as I am handed a new lesson or area of growth on the mat, life hands me opportunity after opportunity to practice the lessons learned.I have this new motto that I've been practicing in yoga and applying to life: "I would rather be honest than impressive." Accessing honesty and then following up with a generous dose of self-compassion is ushering in some pretty incredible growth! We absolutely must challenge belief systems from our past that no longer serve us and replace them with truth. "Every next level of your life will demand a different version of yourself."
It's easy to think you're going to parent in this ideal, by-the-book kind of a way...But when push comes to shove, and your child needs something different, you bend and you shift to what works in the moment.It's easy to think you're going to parent in this ideal, by-the-book kind of a way...that was always my Type-A intent. But when push comes to shove, and your child needs something different, you bend and you shift to what works in the moment. I'm realizing that I've almost had to unlearn, in a sense, what I've read in all these parenting books because my child simply isn't a cookie cutter, babywise, happiest baby on the block, mold of a child. He has his own specific set of needs that I won't always find in the chapters of these parenting books. And he is my focus - even if it means breaking some of the rules.
It’s equally blissful as is heartbreaking to say goodbye to moments like this. So when we find ourselves here, swaying to calming sounds, our hearts melting, beating as one together, I breathe it in slowly.Lately she’s been requesting her bed over my arms to fall asleep in which is all the more telling of how big my baby is really getting. It’s equally blissful as is heartbreaking to say goodbye to moments like this. So when we find ourselves here, swaying to calming sounds, our hearts melting, beating as one together, I breathe it in slowly. Savoring the heaviness of her slumber, and every rise and fall of her chest. At twenty two months, this is us.
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