by Cali Katrina

Currently waiting for that tea kettle to whistle.
Helloooo weekend.
Various practices of habit, and broad perspectives on home.
Magnolia likes it on top of her yogurt with berries, and Griff enjoys his with nut milk and bananas. I love to make it in bulk and it’s our alternative to boxed cereals...We did our shopping and thrifting today, so the rest of the weekend will be spent outside pruning our apple tree, grapevine, raspberry bushes and currants, and folding a heaping pile of laundry.
I’m a worker and a doer and constantly have a million and one ideas and thoughts running through my head. But these days I’m reminding myself to take care of me. Because like the saying goes, "You can’t pour from an empty cup."Being gentle with myself has never come easy. I’m a worker and a doer and constantly have a million and one ideas and thoughts running through my head. But these days I’m reminding myself to take care of me. Because like the saying goes, “You can’t pour from an empty cup.”
We’ll just get out of bed slower, sometimes get back in our pajamas after a warm, long bath, read a lot, play a lot, craft a lot, snack a lot, and try our hardest to laugh a lot.We’ll just get out of bed slower, sometimes get back in our pajamas after a warm, long bath, read a lot, play a lot, craft a lot, snack a lot, and try our hardest to laugh a lot. I try to set up our Mondays to make sure I don’t have to pick battles or instruct much. I just don’t have much expectation because we all need a bit of grace to get back into the week. Mainly grace to myself because here goes a whole week of being a stay-at-home mom with deep intentionality- and that takes energy. Sometimes we leave the house on Mondays and sometimes we don’t. Today we probably won’t. I love a good cleaning day so throughout the day I find joy in being able to clean and not feel bad about letting the kids just be. So, I’ll go clean while I listen to my audio book and hope to not get too interrupted with sibling mishaps.
Countless Tiny House Nation episodes and a desire to start our married life with a big adventure ended up looking like this. A 360 square foot home just for us. Our affordable housing answer with a whole lotta adventure attached to it!Don’t let the unknown steer you away from opportunities to grow. Connect with the people that are doing what you dream of and jump in. Joy is waiting on the other side.
Squeezing in a shower during nap times and rewashing the laundry I forgot about yesterday. Sometimes serving my family a well thought-out crock pot meal I made hours earlier - other times heating up tomato soup and grilled cheese at 8 pm after the babes are asleep.During this season I’ve fallen in love with babywearing all over again. Ivy can nurse in the sling and I still have my hands free to sing songs and practice baby sign language with another child. Whenever I’m out in public, people tell me that it looks like I have my hands full. Which is literally true. Hands full / ring sling full / stroller full - and heart overflowing.
Keeping a small collection of kids’ books out, and storing the rest, encourages deeper play and repetitive reading-which allows a child to read with fluency and greater comprehension.Keeping a small collection of kids’ books out, and storing the rest, encourages deeper play and repetitive reading-which allows a child to read with fluency and greater comprehension. Also, young kids will have fewer books to care for (or toss on the floor).
We woke up to puke (Elle) and a massive blowout (Sawyer)...I’m not getting quality sleep whatsoever (looking at you again, Sawyer), and my house is covered in dog hair and piles of laundry because I have no time in the evenings and we have two too many dogs.I’m putting this out into the cyber universe with the hope that 1) if you’re going through something similar, you are not not NOT alone, and 2) maybe the universe will hear me say, "Uncle? I give!" I’m humbled and giving myself as much grace as I can muster in this season. BUT, we are getting pizza tonight with the family so, hey— that’s the good stuff right there. If I ever wanted to snuggle up with the babes at home and call it, today is that day.
Next, I write what I’m thankful for!..Our ice maker working, hot coffee, and silk pillowcases made my list this morning.1. First, I brain dump - anything on my mind I write it down. This might be random thoughts I’m thinking, things J does, memories I don’t want to forget, etc.
I will honor this body...my ever-changing, strong, curious, beautiful vessel full of curves and sharp edges and softness in which my soul inhabits, where I grew two beautiful humans, where heaven met earth with my third.I will honor this body...my ever-changing, strong, curious, beautiful vessel full of curves and sharp edges and softness in which my soul inhabits, where I grew two beautiful humans, where heaven met earth with my third. Where I have been able to live a life of wonder and song and joy and passion and discovery. THIS—all that this body holds is what I want my girls to see in the mirror. This is beautiful.
This is why I always have children touch and play my guitar after class. They see me make familiar music with it, they hear it, they experience the feeling of the music it makes, and then they’re given the chance to produce it themselves.To foster the desire to make music, your child needs to be around music. The more variety they’re exposed to, the better. Having your child in music class gives them the opportunity to explore different beats with small percussion instruments, meters, tonalities, and patterns. This is why I always have children touch and play my guitar after class. They see me make familiar music with it, they hear it, they experience the feeling of the music it makes, and then they’re given the chance to produce it themselves.
We create the love, the messes, and how much sunshine we let in. I love the magic in that.We might not be able to control what goes on outside of our little worlds at home, but what I love about home is that it’s ours. We create it. We create the love, the messes, and how much sunshine we let in. I love the magic in that. No matter where, what, or who your home is, I hope it’s filled with sunshine.
It’s the little things that make my heart full. Pat reaching his hand for mine. Listening to Titus talk and realizing he’s going to sound exactly like his dad...I try to give little things back. Like these lemon cheese pastries. They are not-so-little bundles of Danish pastry wrapped around lemony cream cheese filling and love.
Now...I know what it is that makes my heart physically ache sometimes; it’s knowing that I can’t freeze these details written on his little face or slow the passing of time.Now, with Peter, I know what it is that makes my heart physically ache sometimes; it’s knowing that I can’t freeze these details written on his little face or slow the passing of time. I love taking photos of my children because I know I’ll forget these sweet, precious details that tend to get lost in the everyday hustle. His plump little lips that open wide as he doses off, the smell of his head that rests on my chest, his warm body wrapped around mine in a perpetual hug. Lord, let me never forget it, not a single detail.
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